Make your expectations known
If he does not knowwhat you want, he may think you're okay with just being the booty call. Afteryou've seen him a few times, introduce the issue of what you personally wantout of a relationship. If something casual is not your thing, let him know. Ifhe calls you for what seems like a booty call, don't entertain it.
Don't answer late night calls
If the two of you don't haveplans to see each other and he just wants you over to hang out for the night,don't do it. No matter how cute he's being and what sweet words he's saying onthe phone, late night calls are his way of saying he wants sex. If he wants tosee you he must make plans during the day.
Set your standards
Make a mental note of yourstandards. You can even write them down somewhere if you want. In order toavoid being his booty call, you have to have higher standards for yourself.Tell yourself that he has to treat you a certain way, and you'll soon realisethat you just won't accept anything less.
Don't sext
He might give you a little extraattention and think you're cool if you want to talk about sex because he lovesit. But, if that's all the two of you have to talk about, he's going to get thewrong idea. Some of your conversations can mention sex and be really flirty,but the main focus of your communication should be getting to know each other, nottalking about sexual stuff.
