Relationships

5 Signs you could be rushing commitment

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Your eye is still wandering

Being in arelationship doesn't mean you won't find other men attractive however, if youstill drool and create your own little ‘perfect family' image in your head then youprobably aren't ready to commit just yet.

You still communicate with your exes

Commitingto yourself to one person generally means you're ready to cut all ties with exesor anyone who may have a negative influence on your union. Exes can ruin eventhe most strongest relationships so if you still entertain such, it's best youput commitment on hold.

Taking the big step doesn't botheryou

Some ofyour friends are getting married, moving in with their partners or havingbabies and you just cringe at the thought of all of that.

You're obsessed with being alone

Usuallywhen you commit it's because you see a future with that person and you're readyto spend the bulk of your time with him. ‘Me time' is key for one's sanitywhether you're in a relationship or nothowever, if spending time with yourpartner irritates you then you're far from being ready.

Postponing the ‘the talk'

You keeptelling yourself that you're going to initiate that dreaded conversation withyour man about the future. But as much as you believe that you're ready, you cannever get yourself to do it and funny enough, you're totally fine with justwinging it when it comes to relationships.

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